October 9th, 2017

The Secret to Transforming Yourself into a Cool Person Others Love

Do you know anyone who meets people easily and others tend to open up to them quickly and it’s clear they really like that person?

Don’t you wish you were more like that?

But what is it about them that allows them to get these positive results with people?

Have you ever stopped to question what makes them so good at dealing and connecting with people?

Just what exactly is it that makes them a “cool” person – and how can you use that knowledge to improve your own personality?

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October 5th, 2017

A Simple Method to Get People to Listen to What You Have to Say

How would you like to learn a simple formula you can use in your conversations that will cause others to want to intently listen to whatever you have to talk about?

Because if you’ve found that people didn’t seem too interested in what you have had to say in the past; they tuned you out, cut you off or changed the subject, I want to share an easy way to get people to want to listen to you.

To understand how it works, it’s necessary to understand giving and receiving, and the idea of reciprocation.

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October 2nd, 2017

The Confident Way to Ask People for Things (without Being a Wimp or a Dictator)

When you want someone to do something for you, like having them do you a favor or asking the clerk for something behind the counter at the store, how do you ask them?

Have you ever stopped to identify how you do it and also considered how your request causes them to perceive you and how they feel about obliging you?

These are important questions to ask because how you answer them will reveal a lot about your character and how others view you.

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September 30th, 2017

The Critical Thing You Must Do to Win Peoples’ Respect

When people cross your personal boundaries or treat you in ways you consider unacceptable, how do you usually react or deal with the situation?

Do you object to people crossing a line with you by calling their behavior out — or do you just shrug it off and accept the unwanted or undesirable behavior without protest?

Furthermore, are you consciously aware of what behaviors you’re unwilling to accept from other people ... you know, the ways in which people treat you that you find inappropriate or unacceptable?

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September 25th, 2017

How to Point Out Peoples’ Faults without Starting an Argument

Have you ever been in that situation where someone else’s behavior was affecting you negatively, but you weren’t sure how to go about bringing it to their attention?

After all, don’t people often tend to get defensive and even argumentative whenever we point out their faults, weaknesses or bad behaviors?

Instead of looking at themselves, their behavior and how it affects others, don’t they tend to either start giving you excuses for their behavior, or else they start justifying it and giving you reasons for why they act the way they do?

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September 22nd, 2017

The Best Way to Answer Nosy or Stupid Questions People Ask You

How do you currently handle yourself when someone asks you questions that are either too forward, invasive or personal – or else just plain outright stupid, because the answers are so obvious?

Do you just unwillingly oblige the person asking and give them the answer they want, even though it might make you feel uncomfortable, annoyed, or even stupid?

Do you feel like you have to answer their questions because you don’t want them to think you’re being rude and impolite, or perhaps because you want to avoid making an issue out of it where a disagreement or even an argument might follow?

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September 21st, 2017

How to Handle Bossy People and Stop Them from Having Their Way with You

Is there someone in your life right now who has the habit of ordering you around?

You know, the type of person who doesn’t ask you to do things, but instead commands or orders you to do them, meanwhile they expect that you’ll just passively comply with their demands?

Makes you want to slap them in the face, doesn’t it?

We all hate being told what to do, right?

So how do you handle bossy people who tell you what to do as if they’re some kind a dictator, and relieve yourself of the resentment that often follows?

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September 20th, 2017

The Most Popular Way People Lose Friends and What to Do About It

When you know someone holds an opposing view to your own, whether religious or political or anything else really, do you ever take it upon yourself to aggressively introduce your opposing viewpoint into the conversation, perhaps with the goal of converting them to your perspective and knowing full well that they’re likely to resist your efforts by arguing back, and maybe you even bring it up because of that certain knowledge?

If you do, have you ever questioned why you do this?

And more importantly, have you ever determined what the ultimate results are, and how those results are detrimental to your relationship with that person?

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